i'm quite aware that everybody sees fandoms differently & i respect that everyone has their own pov. it's human nature to enjoy being right. the thing is, we all need criticism. although we're drawn to like-minded ppl, those who disagree with us truly help us grow. but i'm not gonna lie, some comments can be a bit too harsh & intolerably grotesque.
i often heard fangirls of kdrama & kpop connote some sort of notoriety & are labelled as emotional, shallow & unintelligent. so i've been having curiosity of why do ppl always wanna generalize everything? why kpop/kdrama stans are being judged & attacked like it's a crime? why are they not accepted the same way as marvel fans, football fans, harry potter fans, black metal fans, etc?
you might have thought that fangirls set high standards for some aspects: friendship always makes it thru, love never breaks your heart & a "good guy" is a handsome romantic gentleman. fret not, dude. we know very well life doesn't work like that. reality might suck but if you got faith & believe in God's plan, you know it wouldn't necessarily suck for a lifetime.
a girl could dream of dating a flawless oppa but may eventually end up with a simple decent guy who accepts the way she is. before i go on with more nonsense, let's just cut to the chase: be kind. save your sadistic comments for the real criminals out there. as long as it doesn't turn into mindless obsession or crazy cult, fandom isn't meant to be delusional, it's just a coping mechanism.
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